Actually I don't hate my blog. I hate myself for not being able to express myself properly on here. I have a bazillion things going on inside of me and nothing comes out right. I end up sounding whiny and/or sarcastic and bitchy. I may have some of those qualities, but there's more going on in here than that.
Right now I am stressed to the gills by the fact that I haven't done my taxes in two years. I keep returning to that panicked state of anxiety whenever I think about it. And when I'm not thinking about it, the panic and anxiety are there, hovering. When I am not thinking about my taxes it is only because I am not allowing myself to think about my taxes, so I'm really still thinking about my taxes, you know? Probably not.
I'm wearing a bracelet that through the course of the day has become opressive. It's bugging me. But I can't take it off because I'm at work and I don't want to leave it here.
I really just want to go home, but it would be easier to stay here because if I go home there's too much to do. Plus, I can't just go home, I have to stop at the grocery store and I should really go to the bank. I can talk myself out of the bank because theoretically I could do that tomorrow. Will I really do that tomorrow? Who knows? It kind of depends on a kajillion factors all of which are milling about in my head right now.
I am in constant negotiations with myself. I have brought procrastination and justification and inertia to a whole new level. For the last three days all I have done is play tetris. Well mostly....I also did Mother's day at the ancestral home, walked the dog numerous times, cooked meals, did dishes, attended a theatrical performance as well as the daily drudgery of work. I always go to work, no matter what.
There, that was a minute in my head. Lucky you.
I understand. I think it's from the years and years of bottling everything up and playing the "normal" game of life, work, relationships and trying to do it all. I failed at that...rather I gave it up. Having Aspergers requires large blocks of pure nothingness where our minds can sort, process and play.
ReplyDeleteYou blog quite well, actually. Just write about whatever is in there. I only write about two things, the trivial and the important. Some days it feel really good to unleash and just ramble about all those little sticky stuck items that flourish in an Aspie mind.
I very much enjoy your blog. Please keep writing. I'll keep reading:)